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Tips for the appointment

EXCITING time!! You are getting married. Congratulations!

It will be the first time you see yourself in a wedding dress. Moments to remember forever.

As exciting as it can be, the pressure to find the perfect dress also provokes anxiety in many brides. But a little preparation can ease some of this stress, helping ensure your appointment is an enjoyable one.

Here are a few things for you to bring along with you…

  1. Trust - The HONEST OPINION friend or family member.

    Having someone with you at your appointment is essential. Not only to share the excitement, but also to help you make what is one the biggest decisions you’ll make ahead of your wedding.

    But you should think carefully about who you bring with you.

    It’s a delicate balance. You need someone who will be positive and upbeat, but also not afraid to share their opinion when necessary.

    While it’s also tempting to bring along your entire wedding party, for the initial appointments it’s best to stick to maximum three of your most trusted friends.

  2. A positive and open mind

    Remember: There is a dress for everyone, you will find the dress you want, it’s out there!

    You might not find it at your first appointment, and that’s okay. This is a huge decision — don’t be afraid to hold out for the right dress. 

    Even if you find a dress you like at your first appointment, it’s a good idea to keep an open mind and try a few more places before you commit.

    Unless you’re working to a tight deadline, take your time and enjoy the process.

  3. Some initial ideas

    Some brides go into their first wedding dress appointment knowing exactly what they’re looking for. Others don’t have a clue.

    It’s a good idea to sit somewhere between the two.

    Walking into a room filled with gorgeous dresses can be overwhelming. Do some research before your appointment. Think about your venue and the type of wedding you’re going for, and then get on Pinterest to create a vision board you can take with you on the day.

    Having some initial ideas will help guide the appointment. You can start with dresses in your preferred style and branch out from there.

    Remember to keep an open mind too. We always recommend that a bride try on a few different styles, even if they’re certain they know what they will like.

    The bottom line:

    Be prepared — but expect the unexpected!

  4. Suitable underwear

    This might sound obvious, but it’s important to bring the right underwear with you to the appointment.

    A strapless bra is essential — visible bra straps aren’t a good look for any bride!

    We recommend choosing nude items too.

    That way, if you try on a backless or sheer gown, you’ll be able to get an idea of what it will look like on the day.

    It’s also important to remember you’ll be in and out of dresses throughout the appointment. You’ll spend a lot of time standing around in your underwear, so choose something you feel comfortable in.

  5. Hair accessories

    If you’ve already decided on a hairstyle, make sure you take the right hair accessories with you to the appointment. It might sound like a small detail, but the way you wear your hair can transform how you look in the dress.

    If you haven’t thought about this yet, you should still take a hair bobble or some clips with you so you can see what the dress will look like with your hair up as well as down.

  6. An approximate budget

    Decide an approximate budget.

    The cost of a wedding dress varies considerably. Don’t fall in love with a dress that’s way out of your price range.

    To make sure this doesn’t happen, we recommend sharing your budget with the stylist before you start picking out dresses to try on.

  7. Your wedding shoes

    We do sell beautiful shoes. But if you’ve already bought your wedding shoes, bring them with you.

    If not, think about the size of the heel you plan to wear on the day. If you’re not sure, go with your upper limit. It’s easier to shorten a gown than it is to lengthen it!

  8. Lastly

    Have FUN! This is a once in a lifetime experience and you should enjoy it.

    Whatever happens on the day, remember to relax and have fun with it. Didn’t find THE one? Remember not to lose faith — the perfect dress will be waiting for you another day.